This is one of the few occupations that it is difficult to separate the person from the work that he/she does. I say ‘he’ too because while it is a female dominated profession; men are definitely increasing their numbers.
Before I continue let me say that I will be as objective of possible because of the sensitive nature of this topic. Now as I have stated before prostitution is an occupation like any other occupation. Some people may disagree with me. But the fact is they are paid to perform a task like any other employment.
Now to the real issue at hand, the task that they perform. The problem is that sex is an intimate act performed by people who are in a relationship.
Therefore, if ones means of survival is to sell their bodies to strangers then how can they then turn around and be in an intimate relationship with someone else?
This is where the real contentions lie. Many prostitutes do not tell their partners that they are well prostitutes. So they are in a relationship with that person without never really knowing what the person really does. And unfortunately, when they do find out is when they have contracted a Sexually Transmitted Disease, and ask their partners for an answer is when they are told of their partner’s profession.
So how does one cope with finding out that the person that one was in a relationship is in fact selling their bodies to other people? This cannot even be categorized as infidelity. It is simply a matter of not knowing the person that one was in a relationship with. And more crucially can one love a person knowing that they sell their body for a living. And most importantly can one publicly admit that the person that they are in a relationship with is a prostitute in our Caribbean community that is predominantly very religious? What do you think…?